Sometimes it's hard to get parties. Mostly it isn't that people don't want them; it's that I'm not asking. We've always heard "If you don't ask, it's an automatic 'no'" but we don't change our behavior, do we?
When I'm looking for datings, I go back to the beginning and date FRANK:
F--2 FRIENDS
R--2 RELATIVES
A--2 ACQUAINTANCES
N--2 NEIGHBORS
K--2 KO-WORKERS/KIDS FRIENDS' MOMS
Make your list and start over. Set aside 15 minutes to make phone calls and plan to call 5 today and 5 tomorrow. Reward your good behavior: When you call 10 people, let yourself have a bag of popcorn, or play a game online, or spend 15 minutes on Facebook (the BIGGEST TIME WASTER THAT I HAVE!) You can succeed when you continue on the journey and keep climbing!
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